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Kathryn Mills
Kathryn Mills

Teenage Brain

Adolescence is the period between childhood and adulthood. And though it can stretch into our early twenties, we spend many of these years in high school. This stage of life is marked by increased cognitive abilities, social sensitivity, and agency (or increasing independence). These changes make this time particularly perplexing to some adults, as they struggle to make sense of stereotypical adolescent behaviors such as risk taking and increased allegiance to peers.

At the end of the 20th century, it was common to discuss adolescent behavior as being influenced by “raging hormones.” Today, it is becoming increasingly common to discuss adolescent behavior in terms of the “teenage brain.” But what makes the teenage brain different from the child or adult brain? And do these differences have implications for education and learning? This blog will discuss the latest research in adolescent brain development and how the current evidence might inform education during the teenage years. This post outlines three of the most interesting things neuroscience has taught us about the physical changes that take place in the brain during adolescence.

1. The brain continues to change throughout adolescence.

Perhaps the most important consideration to keep in mind regarding the brain during adolescence is that it is continuing to change. There is evidence for this from multiple lines of research, including cellular work on post-mortem human brain tissue1, as well as longitudinal magnetic resonance imaging (MRI) studies of brain structure and function.

What do we mean by “physically change”?
With MRI, we have the ability to see how the living human brain changes from birth to old age by taking different kinds of pictures. One kind of picture we can take is of the structure–or anatomy–of the human brain, and we can use this picture to look specifically at two components of the brain’s structure: one component is grey matter, which is largely made up of brain cell bodies and their connections. And the other is white matter, which is primarily the long connecting fibers that carry signals between brain regions. The thing that gives white matter its color is “myelin”, which is a fat that wraps around connecting fibers in order to make communication more efficient.

There have been a few studies now where hundreds of participants had their brains scanned multiple times across development, and we know from these studies that the amount of grey matter is greatest during childhood, but decreases during adolescence before roughly stabilizing in the mid- to late- twenties2. We also know that the amount of white matter increases almost linearly across adolescence3. These are two major changes happening in the structure of our brain during adolescence.

2. The brain doesn’t all change at once.

Structural changes are not occurring at the same time across the whole brain. Actually, areas of the brain that are involved in basic sensory processing or movement develop earlier than areas of the brain involved in more complex processes such as inhibiting inappropriate behavior, planning for the future, and understanding other people. These and other complex processes rely on areas in the prefrontal, temporal and parietal cortices, which are continuing to change in structure across the second decade of life4.

How do these changes happen?
We still do not know the specific cellular mechanisms that underlie developmental changes in measures of grey or white matter. It is often thought that these decreases in grey matter reflect, at least in part, changes in connectivity between brain cells. These changes include decreases in dendritic spine density (which is basically a proxy for how interconnected cell bodies are in the grey matter) and other cellular processes involved in synaptic pruning (which is the way that connections in the brain are broken). Histological work, which involves studying the cells using microscopes, has given us a better understanding of the cellular changes occurring in the human brain across the lifespan.

In one specific study, researchers at the Croatian Institute for Brain Research counted the number of dendritic spines in an area of the prefrontal cortex5. They found that the number of spines continued to decrease across the second and third decades of life. So, this finding gives some cellular evidence for the continued structural development of the human brain across adolescence, at least in a section of the prefrontal cortex.

Is this a bad thing?
Not necessarily. The continued reduction in synapses seen in the prefrontal cortex means that the brain is still undergoing changes in organization during adolescence. As humans, we have an excess amount of brain connections when we are children, and almost half of these connections can be lost in adolescence. We know that experience influences what connections are kept and subsequently strengthened. Thus we can think of adolescence as a time of transition rather than a time of loss in certain areas of the brain.

3. The brain is changing in more ways than one.

MRI can also be used to see how blood flows in the brain, which allows researchers to get a sense of how the brain is working. So if MRI alone reveals brain structure, you can think of fMRI (or “functional MRI”) as revealing brain function. Many fMRI studies have also shown changes in brain functionality across adolescence. For example, how we use areas of the brain involved in understanding other people changes between adolescence and adulthood6.

This is especially true for “the social brain”.
There are a number of cognitive processes that are involved in interacting with and understanding other people, and we can use functional MRI to see what areas of the brain are active when we engage in important social tasks like understanding the intentions or emotions behind facial expressions or understanding social emotions like guilt or embarrassment. Tasks like these consistently recruit a number of brain regions in the prefrontal and temporal cortex, which is sometimes referred to as the “social brain.”

Although adolescents and adults use the same areas of the brain during a number of social tasks like understanding intentions and social emotions, these tasks all show a similar decrease in activity across age in this medial prefrontal cortex area, which is a part of the brain often related to social processing Adolescents seem to use this part of the prefrontal cortex more than adults when doing certain social tasks7.

So what does it all mean?
What is the point in highlighting these biological changes if we cannot connect them to real world behavior? In this post, I discussed how the brain is changing in both its structure and function during adolescence, highlighting in particular the changes involved in areas of the brain used when we attempt to understand the thoughts, intentions and feelings of other people. These changes are relevant because of the developmental tasks that adolescents must accomplish. One of the major developmental tasks of adolescence is to learn how to successfully navigate our highly social world. Having a malleable brain during adolescence is arguably adaptive for this sort of task, as new social skills and higher level cultural rules can be acquired with greater ease. Thinking about how these changes may impact the way students interact with educational environments is also important – considering these environments are often just as social as they are learning-oriented. In the next post, I’ll discuss how the adolescent brain is not just primed to learn from the social environment, but also how it is particularly sensitive to complex social signals.

References & Further Reading

  1. Petanjek, Z., Judaš, M., Šimic, G., Rasin, M. R., Uylings, H. B. M., Rakic, P., & Kostovic, I. (2011). Extraordinary neoteny of synaptic spines in the human prefrontal cortex. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences of the United States of America, 108(32), 13281–13286. [Paper]
  2. Huttenlocher, P. R., & Dabholkar, A. S. (1997). Regional differences in synaptogenesis in human cerebral cortex. The Journal of Comparative Neurology, 387(2), 167–178. [Paper]
  3. Mills, K. L., & Tamnes, C. K. (2014). Methods and considerations for longitudinal structural brain imaging analysis across development. Developmental Cognitive Neuroscience, 9, 172–190. [Paper]
  4. Lebel, C., & Beaulieu, C. (2011). Longitudinal development of human brain wiring continues from childhood into adulthood. The Journal of Neuroscience: The Official Journal of the Society for Neuroscience, 31(30), 10937–10947. [Paper]
  5. Tamnes, C. K., Walhovd, K. B., Dale, A. M., Østby, Y., Grydeland, H., Richardson, G., … Fjell, A. M. (2013). Brain development and aging: Overlapping and unique patterns of change. NeuroImage, 68C, 63–74. [Paper]
  6. Blakemore, S.-J., & Mills, K. L. (2014). Is Adolescence a Sensitive Period for Sociocultural Processing? Annual Review of Psychology, 65(1), 187–207. [Paper]
  7. Blakemore, S.-J. (2008). The social brain in adolescence. Nature Reviews. Neuroscience, 9(4), 267–277. [Paper]

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Andrew Watson
Andrew Watson

Remember Kid

When teachers say we want our students to learn, we might also say we want them to remember; after all, if I’ve learned something, I can remember it later on. Sadly and surprisingly, there’s a curious danger to remembering: remembering can cause you to forget.

Yes, you read that right. The wrong kind of remembering causes forgetting.

Imagine the following mental exercise—a mental exercise that resembles many research studies1:

To start, you study a list of words in four different groups—say, Animals (dog, cat), Instruments (guitar, violin), Foods (pizza, steak), and Furniture (sofa, table). After a while, you recall half of the words in two of the groups. For example, in the Animal group, you recall the word “dog” (but not “cat”), and in the Foods group, you recall the word “pizza” (but not “steak”). And you don’t recall any words in the Instrument or Furniture groups.

When I test you on all these words several hours later, there are three logical categories.

First, there are the two groups of words you didn’t recall all: Instruments and Furniture. You’re likely to remember—perhaps—50 % of those words.

Second, there are the words and groups you did recall: the word “dog” in the Animal group, or “pizza” in the Food group. Because you recalled these words, you’re likelier to remember them, so your score will be higher—say, 75%.

Third, there are words that you didn’t recall (“cat,” “steak”) even though you recalled other words in Animal and Food groups.

Take a moment to ask yourself: what percentage of words in this 3rd group are you likely to remember?
Perhaps—because you practiced their groups—you’ll remember them at the 75% level. Or perhaps—because you didn’t practice these specific words—you’ll remember them at the 50% level.

It turns out both answers are wrong. You’ll remember even fewer of those words: say, 40%.

Why? Because practicing some of the words in the Animal and Food categories makes it less likely you’ll remember the un-practiced words. In other words, recalling some of the words prompts you to forget the words you didn’t recall.

The wrong kind of remembering caused you to forget.

In the neuroscience community, there is an active debate about the mechanisms that cause “retrieval-induced forgetting.”2,3 And while that debate is fascinating, it doesn’t really help teachers answer our constant question: “what should teachers do in the classroom with this scientific information?”

I haven’t read any research that addresses this question directly. (More precisely: I don’t remember having read any research that answers it; perhaps I read it, and forgot the source.) But I think the potential dangers of retrieval-induced forgetting (often abbreviated RIF) should shape our practice in very specific ways—in particular, the way we review.

Here’s an example. In yesterday’s class, my students discussed the five ways that the French and Indian War lay the foundation for the American Revolutionary War. To begin today’s class, naturally, I ask my students what conclusions we reached. One student calls out: “The French and Indian War cost a lot of money, and the British government decided to tax the colonies to pay for it. Those taxes helped spark the revolution.” Exactly so. Another student adds to the list: “George Washington gained essential military training and a cross-colony reputation for bravery.” Because we’ve gone over these two key points from yesterday, I assume my students will be prompted to remember the other three. Confident in this assumption, I move on to today’s new topic…

But there’s a problem here. Yesterday, my students got a list of five key points; today, we began class by reviewing two of them. I hoped—in fact, assumed—that my two-item review will help them remember the other three points. However, if the RIF research is true, then my two-item review will in in fact make it less likely that the students will remember the other three items. Because they practiced two of the examples in this group (“ways that one war set the stage for the next”), they are less likely to remember the un-practiced examples in that group.

When I first read this research, and started thinking about my own teaching practice, I realized with increasing alarm how often I review this way. If we studied ten vocabulary words yesterday, I’ll prompt students to recall two or three. If we looked at eight subject-verb agreement rules, I’ll asked them to jot down two, and discuss them with a partner. Of course, teachers must help their students review the material they learn, but if the first review is incomplete, we may very well be reducing—not increasing—the long-term likelihood that our students remember all the information.

In my own teaching, the RIF research has led to this guideline: the first two or three times I go over a topic, I make sure to cover all of the material that is a) conceptually related and b) equally important:

  • “Conceptually related”: RIF results from partial review of conceptually related information only; it influences Animal and Food words, not Instrument and Furniture words.1 For this reason, I don’t need to review an entire lesson—just the logically connected pieces of it. When I go over five essentials for a strong topic sentence, I don’t also need to review the highlights of “Young Goodman Brown.” We discussed both topics on the same day, but our discussion of the short story was conceptually distinct from our discussion of effective writing.
  • “Equally important”: when we go over all five ways that the French and Indian War led to the Revolutionary War, I don’t need to go through the detailed specifics; they’re not as important as the main concept. If I think of my lesson plan in an outline, I should cover all (or none) of the points on the same level of that outline.

One final danger to consider: student directed review might be especially prone to RIF. If students come up with their own list of key terms to remember, for example, their incomplete list might prompt them to forget the examples they didn’t include. As teachers, we need to find mechanisms to ensure that student generated review covers all equally important information.

Of course, research into RIF continues, and we don’t yet completely understand how and why it happens. For teachers, the key point to keep in mind is this: whenever we prompt our students to review, we must be sure that RIF doesn’t cause them to forget what we want them to remember.

References & Further Reading

  1. Jonker, T. R., Seli, P., MacLeod, C.M. (2012). Less we forget: Retrieval cues and release from retrieval-induced forgetting. Memory & cognition 40(8), 1236-1245. [Paper]
  2. Dobler, I.M. & Bäuml, K.T. (2013). Retrieval-induced forgetting: dynamic effects between retrieval and restudy trials when practice is mixed. Memory & cognition 41(4), 547-557. [Paper]
  3. Mall, J.T. & Morey, C.C. (2013). High working memory capacity predicts less retrieval induced forgetting. PLOSOne 8(9), e52806. [Paper]
  • Johansson, M. et al. (2007). When remembering causes forgetting: Electrophysiological correlates of retrieval-induced forgetting. Cerebral Cortex 17(6), 1335-1341. [Paper]

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Stephanie Fine Sasse
Stephanie Fine Sasse

Research and Education

Anyone who has ever stood in front of a classroom silently praying that their curriculum is engaging, their students are comfortable, and their jokes don’t skip a generation can tell you: Teaching isn’t easy. It’s some secret blend of intuition, strategy, and deep breaths. Great teachers aren’t measured by how much they know about the brain any more than great artists are measured by how much they know about the reflective properties of light: knowing how to use it trumps knowing how it works.

So why do we think it’s so important to use research in the classroom? Why am I spending all my time hanging around the places where education and neuroscience overlap?

Well, put simply: I think it can help.

And I’m not the first. For generations, teachers have been drawn to learning more about the engine that runs the minds that they’re shaping. And researchers have believed in the power of knowledge to improve the way we teach. We have the instinct that the more we know about how things work, the better we’ll be able to control or optimize them. And for generations this has led to a somewhat rocky relationship between the researchers who can describe a student, and the teachers who can inspire one. Sometimes toes get stepped on, sometimes lines are crossed or miscommunications abound… and sometimes, it works. So I decided to take a look back at a few of the ways that research has influenced education, and what that can teach us about getting this important relationship on the right track.

(350 BC) Aristotle and the meeting of science and education.

Aristotle was the original evidence junkie, and arguably, one of the first people to view education through what can be thought of as an early iteration of a scientific lens. He was a pioneer of carefully evaluating claims through observation and reasoning and — by refusing to settle for assumptions — laid the groundwork for some of the greatest scientific discoveries. He even compared how constellations appear in the sky depending on your distance from the equator, providing physical evidence to corroborate Pythagoras’s claim that the Earth was, in fact, round (sorry, Columbus).

At the same time, he was a dedicated educator, and he applied his love of the measurable to his pedagogical beliefs. He started a school, which was built on his view that nature is best understood through structured evidence-seeking and reason. He was an early advocate for ideas that have since transformed into a slew of modern buzzwords; he believed experiential learning, educational equality, lifelong learning, and public access to education were essential components of an ethical society. His fact-forward approach to inquiry even snuck into his moral teachings through the concept of “phronesis”: a type of practical knowledge that maintains that being a good person requires taking a bit of a motivated, scientific approach to moral decision-making.

Aristotle believed in fundamental ways of knowing that informed both his investigation of nature and his approach to teaching. As a foreshadowing of professional-learning-communities-to-come, he believed that teaching itself ought to be informed by the collected knowledge of those who have taught. Basically, he’s not only one of the first scientists, but also one of the first advocates for the ways that what we know should directly influence what and how we teach.

Admittedly, Aristotle was a far cry from applying neuroscience to the classroom, but his proclivity for fusing analysis, evidence, action, and learning continue to shape the way we think about education today.

(19th-20th century) The empirically-informed standardization of learning.

We’ve all heard critics of the modern educational system summarize its shortcomings as an out-dated “factory model of education”. They’re usually referencing things like standardized assessment, IQ testing, age grouping, and the one-size-fits-all approach. Most often, the blame is placed on late 19th century adoption of the Prussian-Industrial model in the US, claiming it prioritized conformity and efficiency above all else. Of course, it’s not really that simple.

The 19th century was a time of great flux for public education. Competing models were emerging to solve the most pervasive problems of the day: inconsistent content, unclear standards, and a lack of equal access. By the mid-19th century, the inaugural Secretary of the Massachusetts State Board of Education, Horace Mann, made it his mission to empirically evaluate existing domestic and international models and to lobby for the full implementation of the one that best suited the nation’s needs. Enter: the Prussian-Industrial Model.

This model was first crafted by King Frederick William I as a state-mandated program, arguably crafted to cultivate an obedient and submissive public. Teachers were stripped of autonomy and held to strict standards uncommon to the “sage” or “mentor” models of the past. Sure it was rigid, impersonal, and reeked of indoctrination, but it also ticked off the boxes that mattered most to Mann. It was cost effective, scalable, inclusive, consistent, and prioritized teacher training; features he argued to be necessary for public education to thrive. If he leveraged this powerful system for good, he believed, society as a whole would benefit.

Of course, once this ball started rolling, it seems, Mann’s best intentions couldn’t hasten the inertial appeal of standardization or the emergent needs of the new system. As the Department of Education and similar bodies came into existence, the ambition to continue to improve our approach and evaluate progress intensified. But the new model catalyzed major increases in student-to-teacher ratios; how do you properly evaluate groups of students that large? Policymakers wanted data. They wanted to know what was working, what wasn’t, and what different students knew. By the early 20th century, research on human development, learning, and memory aligned with the goals of evaluators. The complicated entangling of research and education was well on its way as psychologists and educational strategists were recruited to design blanket assessments for growing classrooms.

One of these tests, the Binet-Simon test, was created by French psychologist Alfred Binet to determine the mental capacity of students so that those with severe difficulties could be properly accommodated. That’s it. This whole mess of an IQ debate started with the earnest goal of capturing a snapshot of a particular child’s abilities and responding accordingly. Binet was clear: intelligence is diverse, complicated, and unlikely to remain static over the lifespan. Unfortunately, not everyone was listening.

Henry Herbert Goddard, a US psychologist, caught wind of the Binet-Simon test and translated it into English. He went on to promote its use as an intelligence assessment tool, going so far as to encourage the sterilization of those deemed “feeble-minded” by its measure. Stanford psychologist Lewis Termin who adapted the test to create the Standord-Binet version (now in its fifth edition), also believed that intelligence was an inherited and fixed trait. The result was a national effort to rank students, citizens, and immigrants against each other, with sometimes dire consequences.

By 1936, standardized testing had become such a popular way to quickly and consistently assess large groups of people that the first automatic test scanner was developed to make doing so even easier. Basically, in less than one hundred years, the goal of systematizing public education led to a series of (sometimes) reasonable next steps that eventually landed us with Scantrons.

(Present Day) Brain-Based Learning.

Selfies and Netflix consumption aside, it’s safe to assume that people haven’t fundamentally changed much since the days of Aristotle. We’re still susceptible to the same biases, assumptions, and miscommunications that we were in the 19th century. Of course, we have the added benefit of learning from everything that’s come before us. So the question is, how do we make sure that research is used wisely?

Well, for starters, we have to talk to each other. If someone had asked Binet before implementing his test, he would have likely clarified how to use it reasonably. If someone had asked experienced teachers before they assumed a single standard for quality, they would have likely clarified the value of adapting to your students. The problem is that information doesn’t exist in a vacuum and expert does not mean right. We’re all constantly interpreting research to match our own goals, experiences, and understanding of the world. We are much better at hearing what we want to hear than we are at listening to each other.

Which leads me to a question that a teacher asked me in one of my workshops: Exactly what type of learning is not brain-based?

Her point was that the premise is flawed. The way this research is being shared is often flawed. If we present neuroscientific research as a solution, or information that lays the foundation for a “type” of learning, we miss the point — and the opportunity. Great teachers have navigated the inner workings of the brain for centuries without ever needing to know what was going on inside. To suggest that now that we have MRI machines and EEG we’re all of a sudden going to better understand how to teach a brain to learn is highly unlikely. Like any good, long-term relationship, it all comes down to goals, expectations and respect. Researchers and educators have to consider the lens and goal of each other, and adjust their expectations accordingly.

And when it comes to neuroscience, there seems to be a bit of a communication breakdown. Some people are adamant that there’s no place for neuroscience in education; it’s too premature or the questions are just too different. Others believe that it’s the answer we’ve all been waiting for; the pixie dust that’s going to fix whatever we believe to be broken. Still others see a business opportunity; if we can package up the appeal of neuroscientific answers and cater them to educators’ needs in bite size chunks, we can make some serious dough and no one will be the wiser.

I find that reality is usually somewhere in-between.

Neuroscience is unlikely to create great teachers, great tests, great classrooms, or great curricula – that’s not its goal and that’s not something I expect anyone to bottle up any time soon – but it can inform the way we think about students and the nested communities that they’re a part of. It can teach us more about ourselves, how we interact with information, and how we interact with each other. It can be one of many tools we use to get this right. And frankly, that’s all we should ask of it.

When thinking about history, we first have to consider whether the actions that look foolish in retrospect were actually reasonable reactions to the problems of the day. Sometimes it’s successful, and sometimes it’s not. By putting ourselves in their shoes, we can empathize with their mistakes, and more easily imagine ourselves making them in similar circumstances. Education and science are similar in that both can be a reflection of the society that supports them. Every solution has flaws, and often, the solution to one problem ends up causing a whole slew of new ones. The power and perceived credibility of research was well-received by a system that felt haphazard and disorganized. The problem is, that same research viewed through different lenses can have drastically different consequences. In the case of standardization, history reminds us to both embrace the insights research may offer, while also being wary of the agendas that may be shaping its use.

Similarly, neuroscience is valuable to education, so long as we understand its limits and the biases of those who are disseminating it. If we adopt it blindly, then we run the risk of misallocating resources or creating more problems than we solve. Recent studies suggest that the majority of educators continue to believe neuromythologies, and the problem is, they didn’t come up with those themselves. Someone else told them that students are left-brained or right-brained. Someone else told them that boys and girls are born with totally different brains, or only use 10% of it, or that Mozart will make you smarter. The list goes on and on, but the point is, as history has shown us, society (and in this case mass media and capitalism) will often shape the message. It’s up to us to find ways to make sure that the darker side of history doesn’t repeat itself.

It’s a pursuit that we’ll never really finish. Research is always in progress and education is always looking for ways to adapt to the needs of the day. The goal is to work towards the best ways to keep up, so that we can collectively take the next chapter of history into our own hands.

References + Further Reading:

Aristotle

  • Aristotle B.C. (384-322) – Education for a Common End”. StateUniversity.com. [Blog]
  • Back, S. (2002). The Aristotelian challenge to teacher education. History of Intellectual Culture, 2(1), 1-5. [Paper]
  • Curren, R.R. (2000) Aristotle on the necessity of public education. Rowman and Littlefield Publishers. [Book]
  • Kurthagen, F.A.J. in cooperation with Kessels, P.A.M., Kostler, B., Lagerwerf, B., Wubbels, T. (2001) Linking practice and theory: The pedagogy of realistic teacher education. Mahawa, N.J.: Lawrence Erlbaum Associates. [Book]
  • Popova, M. (n.d.) The art of practical wisdom: The psychology of how we use frames, categories, and storytelling to make sense of the world. BrainPickings.com [Blog]
  • Wanjek, C. (2011). Top 5 misconceptions about Columbus. LiveScience [Blog]

19th-20th Century Learning

  • Binet, A. (1905). New methods for the diagnosis of the intellectual level of subnormals. L’Anée Psychologique, 12, 191-244. [Paper]
  • EdX. (2015). Saving schools: History and politics of U.S. Education. Harvard University [MOOC]
  • Fletcher, D. (2009). Brief history: Standardized testing. TIME [Article]
  • Meshchaninov, Y. (2012). The Prussian-Industrial history of public schooling. The New American Academy. [Report]
  • Noer, M., Khan, S. (2012). The history of education. Forbes. [Video]
  • Watters, A. (2015). The invented history of ‘The Factory Model of Education’. Hack Education [Blog]
  • Zenderland, L. (2001). Measuring minds: Henry Herbert Goddard and the origins of American intelligence testing. Cambridge University Press. [Book]

Brain-Based Learning

  • BrainFacts. (n.d.). Neuromyths. BrainFacts.org. [Resource]
  • Howard-Jones, P.A. (2014). Neuroscience and education: Myths and messages. Nature Reviews Neuroscience, 15(12), 1-8. [Paper]
  • Sukel, K. (2015). When the myth is the message: Neuromyths and education. Dana Foundation. [Briefing]
  • Sylvan, L.J. & Christodoulou, J.A. (2010). Understanding the role of neuroscience in brain based products: A guide for educators and consumers. Mind, Brain, and Education, 4(1), 1-7. [Paper]
  • Tardif, E., Doudin, P., Meylan, N. (2015). Neuromyths among teachers and student teachers. Mind, Brain, and Education, 9(1), 50-59. [Paper]
  • Weisberg, D.S., Keil, F.C., Goodstein, J., Rawson, E., Gray, J.R. (2008). The seductive allure of neuroscience explanations. Journal of Cognitive Neuroscience, 20(3), 470-477. [Paper]

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Rebecca Gotlieb
Rebecca Gotlieb

Resilience—the ability to recover from a set-back—is one of the most important traits and mindsets to instill in children so that they may thrive in adulthood. This is the theme of Building Resilience in Children and Teens: Giving Kids Roots and Wings, Third Edition, by Dr. Kenneth R. Ginsburg. Ginsburg is a pediatrician at the University of Pennsylvania Perelman School of Medicine, a counselor and researcher about child development, and a father of two adolescent girls. The “seven crucial Cs”– competence, confidence, connections, character, contributions, coping and control—comprise the skills parents should foster in their children to promote resilience. Although Ginsburg humbly states that much of the book is “commonsense parenting,” this guide, aligned with recommendations from the American Academy of Pediatrics, is helpful to all parents and youth services providers because of the practical tips and tricks he provides for reflecting about and improving one’s parenting practices.

Children and adolescents experience stress from parents, friends, school, demanding extracurricular activities and the media. While stress had an evolutionarily productive role (i.e., spurring us to escape predators), and, while it can still be harnessed to increase productivity today, chronic stress may lead to poor health and risky decision-making. Given that many of the behaviors parents hope their children will avoid arise as a stress-coping mechanism, it is important to address children’s stress directly. Ginsburg offers numerous strategies to help children and adolescents (and their caregivers) manage stress and build resilience. He suggests physical exercise, meditation and reflection, proper nutrition and sleep, engaging in creative activities, volunteering in the community, having multiple friend groups and older mentors, and learning to ask for help. He discusses some of his clinical techniques for redirecting stress-related behaviors, such as making a decision tree. More than any of these tactics, the most critical parenting practice for building resilience and managing stress is ensuring that children know they are loved unconditionally, that their parents will always be a source of stability, and that home can be a safe haven.

Another crucial parenting practice is setting high expectations for children. Children will fulfill the expectations set for them, whether they are low or high. One of the greatest challenges of parenting is knowing how much to protect a child. Loosening protective reins to allow children to work on their emerging abilities and build on their strengths gives them an opportunity to gain competence and confidence. When children or adolescents meet expectations, praise should be realistic and based on effort. When they fail to meet reasonable expectations that parents set, parents need to avoid lecturing. Criticism should be focused. Punishments should be clearly related to the offense committed. Parents should not equate discipline with punishment; rather they should think of discipline as a way of teaching and scaffolding behavior. To understand why a child has not met an expectation, and to connect more generally, parents need to learn to listen. Doing so means creating opportunities for discussions, listening intently without interruptions, and being non-judgmental.

Parents need to model the behaviors that they hope to cultivate in their offspring. The actions that children observe will impact their behavior much more than the messages they are told. As such, parents should embody the values they hope to pass on, such as giving to charity, avoiding prejudice, delaying gratification, communicating emotions effectively, and devoting oneself to important relationships. Ginsburg argues that the aim of parenting is to raise children who will grow into people who will be successful at ages 35, 45, 55 and beyond. At each of these ages parents need to care for themselves and model a full life for their children by engaging in their own interests and maintaining their own social relations outside of their children.

These parenting practices encompass an authoritative parenting style in which parents set clear expectations, offer an overabundance of love, and urge their children to develop their own independence. Authoritative parents offer their children lots of time, attention, and opportunities for emotional vulnerability, but they do not spoil their child by indulging each material desire.

While nearly the entire book is relevant to any parent, Ginsburg offers a few specialized tips for populations that face unique challenges such as military families or adolescents with depression. Beyond the recommendations in this book, Ginsburg also refers his readers to online resources with a wealth of information about promoting grit and resilience and reducing stress. Ultimately, he suggests that first and foremost a parent should trust her own instinct about what is best for her child as this is the most important ingredient for “giving kids roots and wings.”

 

Ginsburg, K.R. & Jablow, M. M. (2015). Building Resilience in Children and Teens: Giving Kids Roots and Wings (3rd ed.) Elk Grove Village, IL: American Academy of Pediatrics.